I came up with the brilliant idea of making a daily schedule for my kids to follow. It's not a lie when I tell you they never complain about it. Some part of having an "agenda" makes them feel more comfortable, a day more predictable. The idea of scheduling my kids' day out after they just returned back from a 9 hour post-vacation drive may seem a little harsh and regimented, but I did it anyway. They better get used to it. Landon asked if I was going to change up the schedule every day. I shrugged. I really hadn't thought that far ahead. What usually happens is that I start running out of ideas about 4 days into something like this. Hopefully, we will last more than 4 days. I have a saved note on my phone with possible activities, but I can see us breezing through half of them in about 20 minutes. My mother had the brilliant idea of letting them proposed their own schedule, so I deleted all of the activities for each hour and handed them a blank spreadsheet to fill in. I was pleasantly surprised when it was returned without much edited from my original plan. And no one said, "Sit and eat Oreos while binge-watching Netflix."
Our first day of scheduling was pretty much on task. Around dinner time, we started to fall off, but it was pretty successful regardless of a lackluster evening. I managed to take suggestions from both kids for our Sunday schedule. I also added my own things like -- go for a hike with Mommy. M decided to join us for it too..... and the kids insisted bringing the dog.
"Is that it?" M says.
"I told you it was short," I replied.
The trail is not a lengthy hike at this park; if you blink or yawn, you might miss it. The goal was to simply get out in the natural world for a breath or two. The kids aren't used to staying home so much, so this was a welcomed break. They begged M to let them go to the store with him. He refused. Guess we are making every effort to stay safe.
Our first day of scheduling was pretty much on task. Around dinner time, we started to fall off, but it was pretty successful regardless of a lackluster evening. I managed to take suggestions from both kids for our Sunday schedule. I also added my own things like -- go for a hike with Mommy. M decided to join us for it too..... and the kids insisted bringing the dog.
"Is that it?" M says.
"I told you it was short," I replied.
The trail is not a lengthy hike at this park; if you blink or yawn, you might miss it. The goal was to simply get out in the natural world for a breath or two. The kids aren't used to staying home so much, so this was a welcomed break. They begged M to let them go to the store with him. He refused. Guess we are making every effort to stay safe.

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